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Omg omg, you’ve put words to exactly how I feel everyday. I have this deep-rooted hatred for men and I feel so guilty admitting that. It’s like I get so irritated at literally every single one. I don't even know when it happened. It’s like I’m harboring a huge resentment towards them

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I feel you luv. ❤️🤗

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this is so beautifully written and i dont think i have never related to something as much. hating men made me think im just a bad person with bad experiences, that there are thousands of good men in the world and i have to look for them. but after getting choked as a joke i decided to stop looking. it really is all men and im tired of pretending its not

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I'm so sorry you had to go through that. And thanks youuuu ❤️. I wish you didn't relate. I wish it wasn't so hard but alas...

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I feel the exact same as u. We r right. We have assessed the threat accurately.

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I mean in reality-ville women are substantially much less likely to be murdered than men, and it’s statistically rare generally

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Kí ni à ń sọ? kí ni ò ń sọ? What are we saying? What are you saying?

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That thought really resonates with me. I always keep my guard up around men because you never know when they will act out. I wish they can just leave us alone.

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I understand that. They're so unpredictable.

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I have these thoughts all the time, to the point of them feeling intrusive. That hypervigilance will wreck you. Thankfully I don't have many men on my life to cause me stress but I'm still a man hater to my core.

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Yessssss, that feeling of the thoughts becoming intrusive is so reallllllll.

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Fr hating predators is not equal as predators hating on a prey

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So trueeee

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